Have you heard of the expression 'it's not over till the fat lady sings' this is especially true of breakups.
The fact is that many breakups are temporary and you can learn a few devious but ethical methods to get an ex girlfriend back without her even knowing what your up to.
Sounds cool doesn't it? I know the pain - I've been there.
It doesn't feel right you should be with her.
What happened? Why don't I call her and give her a ring - I'm sure that we can patch things up.
Does this sound familiar? Stop, Stop, Stop.
Disaster is looming! Surefire Method #1 Accept the 'reality' of the breakup.
This is the hardest first thing to do.
This is where your strength of character comes in.
The irony is that when you accept that the breakup has occurred you can fit together the rest of the pieces and start the learning and healing process.
I'm not getting all 'soft' here - this is a reality check.
It's a good opportunity to reflect on the reasons for the breakup - so as you don't make the same mistake twice! The second benefit of this is that you are not going to be pressurizing her into seeing you - this will give her time to miss you - trust me on this it works! Surefire Method #2 Don't call her! Yeh, you heard me.
Why? She needs her space and so do you.
You need time to get your head together you need to get your emotions balanced.
Now she may be feeling the guilt if she's ended it- she may feel that she has misjudged you and will start missing you.
You see we humans are a strange lot - it's only when we feel we have lost something that we truly value it - that's why she is likely to call you! Surefire Method #3 Get out and enjoy yourself - a few words of caution here! Don't try and make her jealous and don't wallow in self pity with your friends - she will get to hear of it and your chances are ruined.
Instead use this as an opportunity to enjoy your 'singleness' again (she doesn't know your ultimate purpose - nor do your friends - keep this to yourself).
When your friends see that you are 'coping' well with the breakup and getting over it is the time when she 'will' contact you as she will see why she was with you in the first place! These are not the only Surefire Methods to get an ex girlfriend back