There comes a time when you realize that you have wasted a lot of time banging your head against a wall trying to figure out the right way to get your ex back.
Once you've come to grips with reality you will no doubt be pleasantly surprised to find that like you, thousands have felt betrayed and "dumped" at some point in their lives, but have gone on to be blissfully reunited with their ex! Well, as the saying goes - what worked for someone else can work for you too! It is fairly easy to make your ex see what he/she is missing by cutting you out of his/her life.
If you've got the gumption then try out the following - and before long you'll have your ex eating out of your hand again.
o Get off that emotional roller coaster! : Determine to be happy again and tell yourself that there are going to be no more tears on your pillow.
If you are still depressed, there is no way you are going to arouse interest (leave alone desire) in your ex again.
Get that hangdog wounded expression off your face and do whatever you can to look smashing enough to make heads turn! This new attitude and look will no doubt make your ex sit up and take notice.
o Paint the town red!: If you never took the trouble to give your ex a great time before, it's probably the reason why he/she lost interest in you.
Make sure your ex sees you having the time of your life.
It wouldn't hurt if you are seen with a sexy partner who seems to be having a whale of a time with you.
Make sure you don't flaunt your new date once too often or else your ex might wise up and know that you are probably putting on a show! o Get to the root of the problem : Having a reality check won't hurt.
If you have been instrumental in pushing your ex away, then it's only right that you work on those weaknesses and faults before you think of patching up things with your ex.
This is to ensure that history does not repeat itself.
Concentrate on showing your ex that you are the exact opposite person now - where you were heartless and uncaring, you are now sensitive and loving; pride and selfishness have taken a back seat.
Your ex is going to want to be with the new you before too long.
o Keep the flames burning! : It is easy to read instructions about how to get your ex back but to carry them out takes a lot of patience and ingenuity.
Don't rush your ex but give him/her the time to trust you and want you again.
Remember the past is where it should be - in the past! Don't keep dwelling on it and demand explanations.
If you play hard to get, it is bound to make your ex interested enough to call you once again.